Sometimes I feel like my dog. I mean I’m not hairy all over, well, maybe
just a little on my legs in the winter—it’s Northern Michigan, it keeps me
warm, don’t’ judge me. I don’t have a tail and I don’t, thankfully, have to run
outside to use the bathroom. But some of the things that she does makes me
think of some of the things I do (or want to do in my own life).
1. She’s
needy. That sweet dog will sit with
the cutest look on her face and the most darling puppy dog eyes that you ever
did see just to get some attention. Her goal, I believe, is just to get us to
look at her and fluff her ears or grab a toy and play for a moment. There are times, like this morning, that she
just sits in the middle of the floor and whines. The only reason she does it is because she
wants someone to recognize her existence and to pet her. She doesn’t want to be pet just once and then
to move on, but wants us to spend the remainder of our morning petting and
massaging her neck. Gee, wouldn’t we all
like that type of attention? I’m pretty
confident I do the same things to get attention—well, almost the same
things. I don’t sit in the middle of the
floor and whine (probably because I couldn’t get up easily if I did it). But I
when I do need some extra attention I may mope around the house until someone
recognizes that yes, Laurie has a need and asks me to which I begin spilling
out whatever my need is. Thankfully my
dog can’t actually talk or else I’m sure we would hear an earful. There are times that I too would like to just
nuzzle up to someone and have my neck massaged, or to have all of the focus on
me. It seems often, unlike my dog, that
I skirt around sharing my need and just continue on with life never sharing
what it is that I actually need from a particular person. Wouldn’t it be much easier if I, or I’m
assuming many of you, would just sit in the middle of the floor and say, “I
need a hug, I need to talk, I need just to feel loved and appreciated,
etc….?” I’m not encouraging you to sit
in the middle of your living room floor and just whine like my dog because,
quite honestly, it is annoying. What I
am suggesting is that you share your needs and your burdens with those that
care about you and love you. You may
just get a neck massage out of it or at least a giant hug, which can melt away
much of the yucky stuff that needs to be let out.
2. She goes off on her own away from us. When my dog has been playing hard with her
toys, chewing on her bone or just hanging around us, she will oftentimes just
get up, without warning and leave the room.
Of course we have to check to make sure she isn’t up to something,
because, after all, aren’t ALL dogs always up to something? But more times than not, she has left us to
go to her crate where sits her big fluffy pillow. She will go in and hunker down, not a care in
the world and just leave us behind for a while.
Can you imagine if we all took the time to do that? What if we took
ourselves away from the group, or family, or work for a while and went
somewhere quiet and hunkered down for a while to just rest and get our thoughts
in order? I feel like that makes us a
much better person in doing so. I’m an
advocate for naps. I LOVE a good
nap. Much of my naptime is not sleeping
but reading, thinking, praying, etc…. It’s a time that I do a regrouping of my
thoughts and rest my oftentimes-weary bones.
Jesus did it a lot. It says in
Luke 5:16 that Jesus often withdrew to
lonely places and prayed. Solitude
and silence is good for the soul.
3. When we
arrive home there is nothing but pure and unending joy that we are back. When I get home from work and am walking
up the sidewalk I can hear my husband tell the dog, “Laurie’s home.” As soon as I open the door the dog has raced
across the living room and is at my side.
She is shaking so much (she’s one of those little dogs that I think it’s
in their DNA to shake like a goofball) that until I bend down and pet her she
can barely contain herself. She is so
very happy to see me. It’s like she
hasn’t seen me in days and really it’s only been a few hours. Talk about a great homecoming. What if every time a family member came home
we reacted with that type of excitement?
I’m not encouraging you to stand at the door and shake—your family
member might call 911 thinking you are having a seizure. Some dogs get so excited that they piddle on
the floor when their person arrives home.
I’m certainly not encouraging you to do that! What I am suggesting is
that we try having a bit more excitement as they walk in the door than just
staying seated behind our computer or phone and saying just the minimal,
“Hey.” Get up out of the chair, go to
the door, open it for them and greet them with a hug or a kiss. At first you might hear comments like, “Okay,
what did you do?” or “What do you want?” After a while when they know it’s
sincere and you want nothing but to greet them with the same joy that your dog
greets you, they will begin to look forward to that welcome home greeting as much
as I do the greeting I receive from my dog.
Silly how the simple things of a dog can teach us
so much; Let people know your needs,
take time to be alone, and greet a family member with a new sense of
excitement.
And this crazy dog is so popular that she has her own Instagram jessie.the.pupper so please like her if you want silly photos of her. But I beg you please like my Instagram first laurielyost because if my dog gets more followers than me, I will never hear the end of it.