Friday, June 5, 2015

Doing something a little different with your day

Last Saturday my daughter Emily and I had the opportunity to go shopping for the whole day.  Now I’m not much of a shopper but she had wanted to go out, just the two of us, for some time.  We started out early and got back late.  We stopped at the Goodwill’s in the area first to find the best deals (which there really were none) and then we went to the mall.  I’m not really a mall shopper because, quite honestly, the prices are much more than my budget allows me to pay.  When a pair of jeans for a teenager cost $74 and everyone seems okay with that I begin to have heart pains. But we had fun non-the- less.

We laughed a lot, pulled things off of the racks that we would never be caught dead in, bought hardly anything and just had a wonderful time together.  One of our goals for the day was to go into the bridal shop and try to find a mother of the groom dress for me.  I was ready and prepared.  I had a picture and the order numbers of the dresses that I had investigated online.  When we walked into the store several nice gals who were more than willing to help us in our journey of dress buying greeted us.  I don’t wear many dresses and so buying a fancy dress really is not in my realm of weekly, monthly or even yearly purchases—I needed help.  Emily is always good to have with me in these types of endeavors because she will tell me the truth.  She will give me the “no way” look, the “hmmm, not so sure about it look” and the “wow, you look stunning look.”  I know that I can trust her fashion judgment.  So we ventured into the world of wedding gowns, beautiful, fancy dresses and accessories to match. 

The ladies helping were a lot of fun and we teased and joked back and forth.  However, they told me that the dresses that I had chosen they didn’t actually have in the store.  In my mind I’m thinking of course not because 2 of the 3 were the $79 ones.  They had similar ones that they would bring me to try on.  And it began.  Dress after dress I put on.  One looked like I belonged in Egypt as Cleopatra’s sister.  Another looked like I was going to a funeral.  Several wouldn’t zip up fully.  But there was one that just looked lovely.  I walked out of the dressing room and my daughter, the workers and even a bridal party trying on dresses of their own stopped and said that I looked stunning.  It was dark blue with a nice jacket to go with it.  I didn’t look like an old lady, I didn’t feel like a grandma but felt elegant and beautiful.  I got the thumbs up and then the lady working was so excited that she went and got me accessories and shoes to match.  I’m not used to being waited on and having things brought to my dressing room to try but I’ll have to be honest, I kind of liked it.  They don’t do that at Goodwill or Salvation Army and so I thought that I might be on to something here.  I liked the royal treatment.  I loved the dress so much that I bought it and the accessories with it. After paying for it I realized why they give the royal treatment.  This wasn’t your second hand store where you get 50% off for the tag color of the week.  This was the real deal.  A real store, with real prices, and real people trained to sell you new clothes.  As much as I love my second hand store deals, I liked really liked being at this type of store where they could look at my body shape, my skin tone, and pick a dress for me that might work. 


Our day ended together at the bookstore where we bought fancy coffees and browsed.  Sometimes it’s good to do things that you don’t normally do and to get to do it with my favorite girl was a real bonus.  What can you do this week that takes you out of the realm of the norm?  Try something new and maybe you too might feel like a queen for the afternoon. 

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